Wes Unruh

Unrelated Thoughts

while not specifically about my adoption…

Posted by wesunruh on April 10, 2008

I’ve been tied up in a lot of different writing ventures, few if any which related directly to me being an adoptee, and honestly that aspect of my psyche feels much more at peace than it did a few years ago… perhaps with all the other projects I’ve been able to put this concern to rest. While I strongly feel that adoption is flawed, I’m now at the point where I think everything else is equally flawed, so that’s helped me gain perspective of sorts…

Anyway my co-author and I have almost brought out the first edition of our book, The Art of Memetics. Right now, we’re in the process of getting it laid out, designed, copy-edited, and watching the fallout of it being pirated and distributed heavily online.

That’s right, our little print-on-demand book has already been downloaded thousands, if not tens of thousands of times already, and we haven’t even cleaned up the typos. We’re selling a reduced price pre-first edition for those who don’t want to wait. Check it out–The Art of Memetics I assure you this book isn’t like any other book.

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updated

Posted by wesunruh on December 18, 2007

this blog has been extensively updated

I will be focusing much more on the research blog for my novel
(now included as a feed to the top left on this page)

I will also be posting here as I run across items specific
to both my adoption and to adoption politics at large

in other words this blog will be more opinion-oriented
while my research blog will be more link-oriented

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what about the birth father?

Posted by wesunruh on December 10, 2007

here’s the situation,

The birth mother, realizing she’s pregnant, leaves her boyfriend
(the birth father) without telling him she’s pregnant

Two days before she gives birth, she contacts him out of the blue
and informs him she’s about to have a child and will be giving the
child up for adoption, then hangs up on him

You can assume she’s lied and told the adoption agency that she
doesn’t know where the father is or who the father might be,
and is unwilling to help them find him, and the only reason she
contacted him was in some sense because she’d felt guilty
about going behind his back.

At what point are his parental rights terminated?

If he could figure out where this adoption was being
finalized, could he stop the process?

Let’s say this happens in Kansas, where there is no putative
father registry - what can he do?

(This is all purely hypothetical, I’m trying to illustrate the gap between
what adoption.com presents as adoption and the circumstances that
lead to adoption in the real world.)

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wesunruh.info

Posted by wesunruh on November 18, 2007

I’ve moved

wesunruh.info

will be my
primary blog
for all future
posts.

this allows me
to begin using
rss feeds, to
write for smaller
screens, to
maximize my
time, and to
leverage the
platforms already
available to me

I spent the
year toying
with various
blogging forms
and have decided
to use blogspot
from here on
out, while my
longer articles
will continue to
appear on alterati

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a selection from The Art of Memetics

Posted by wesunruh on November 8, 2007

by edward wilson and me, wes unruh

Marketers, political organizers, and other social engineers are tracking, capturing, and controlling people right now. They track the marks you make, how you vote, the websites you visit, and where you spend your money. They know your timetables, they feed you the media you passively consume. Humanity was captured long ago by the meme of civilization, and ever since civilization has been working on humanity’s domestication. Domesticated animals are treated in a different manner than wild beasts. The emphasis shifts from finding and capturing individuals to managing and controlling the herd. The herders hand down schedules to determine in advance where the individuals will be, and when they’ll be there. They worry about tracking the herd in clusters, and as long as the individuals remain within the bounds they’ve set, they’ll overlook the intricacies of individual behaviors. It is only those who stray out from the edges of the herd that the herders send the dogs after the lone individual, although it’s important to realize in this metaphor that even the dogs the herders send out are domesticated. Domesticated animals are the most predictable of all, as even their strayings are predictable so the herders eventually forget how to cope with the truly unpredictable.

Understanding this as a metaphor for social engineering, we can begin to see that we do have the ability to exploit the conditions of our own captivity. As long as we appear to remain within the bounds of the herd we have a great deal of freedom in which to move, although should we move too quickly, the herders may be afraid of us starting a stampede. Still, so long as we know what signs they use to track us and what patterns they rely on to predict our behavior, we can remain invisible to them as individuals. Finally, should we pick our moment and leave the herd at a time when they are not watching for strays, we can escape the herd.

The Mayan control system is based on the principles of time-binding, based on calendars, festival days, and seasonal changes. Language, or at least the standard languages, are linear methods of time-binding, and increases the memory of a system while also effecting decisions any given system may influence. The high priests knew what affective states people would pass through, and the physical conditions that prevailed. The academic control factors now present rely on lab books for science, logbooks for navigation, ledgers for business accounting, and so on. Power is based in the faculty of prediction, in knowing where something is going to occur and when. Science reads its lab books, spots patterns, and makes predictions. Because the Mayan system was homeostatic the priest always knew what was going to occur, thereby wielding power over their society. We are still subject to this control system of time-binding, as we are still reliant on the clock and we consume media according to a broadcasting schedule. If anything, today’s work world is more finely sliced time-wise than the Mayan calendar ever could have been.

Only through the knowledge of the ruling class has tyranny ever been overthrown. The Jews would have never left Egypt if Moses hadn’t been raised as an Egyptian prince. The techniques of the persuaders and manipulators are needed if we are to free ourselves, if we are to understand how we are bound to the systems, the schedules, and the cast-iron personas imposed by our social roles. Ironically, the way to freedom is to use the tools of control on ourselves. This is why we must spy on our own actions, record our own activities, look at our own patterns, and create our own predictions. We must select and censor what memes we are exposed to, whom we associate with, and learn to control our own behavior.

Of course, looking at life in this kind of metaphor for too long will probably trigger some paranoid ideations. It’s all too easy to fall prey to a ludic fallacy of viewing all of reality as a virtual space constructed by our patterning brains busy assembling fragmented signals and then filling in the gaps between the connections of our associative networks. As our conscious experience lags behind the events and actions of our lives, reality looks like an explanation made up after the fact. However, a certain amount of life-as-game analogy does open up enormous possibilities for triggering change in the world. As a friend of the authors says, ‘Be the change you want to see in the world.’

When attempting to effect changes on others using memetic techniques, there are many layers of organization you can concentrate on, and many different angles of approach you can use. You could look at the linear causative structure of narrative, or instead focus on the underlying network structure of association. You could work with the cognitive layers of thought and emotion, or instead focus on preconscious drives and desires. You could target the aggregate predictabilities of market segments or the specific peculiarities of individuals. Whatever you are attempting to accomplish, your signal should be fine-tuned to affect it’s audience on the precise layers you have targeted. Obviously, a communication meant to effect the drives and desires of a thirty-something accountant will be totally different from on targeting the style story being told in the teen market.

A meme needs to enter the human system by way of one of the senses. Its instructions must be encoded in a manner the nervous system can digest, and then act upon. For this we’ve looked to the quasi-scientific field of Neurolinguistic Programming and appropriated NLP’s representational systems of visual, auditory, kinesthetic, and olfactory channels. Most communication occurs beneath the layers of conscious thought because people are only able to be conscious of a certain percentage of the total sensory experience of any given moment in any given environment. Therefore, most of the information or input coming in along these various channels is being absorbed by the preconscious mind on a subliminal level.

This knowledge provides a few tricks for tweeking a meme’s capsid to be more easily ingestible and infective. We could begin by changing linguistic or non-linguistic cues to lead the potential receiver through a sequence of sensory modalities, essentially training them in what NLP practitioners term a ’strategy.’ We could elicit a particular emotional state and anchor it to our message or symbols. We could communicate incongruently to transmit different messages to different parts of a large audience. We could use contradictory messages to trigger a disassociative and suggestible state in the potential receiver. Brainstorming on ways to manipulate or reframe a message can be facilitated through watching how a political candidate or speaker presents their platform to different audiences.

One’s position in an official system of governance is only one measure of that individual’s political power. The totality of that individual’s power can be figured by examining the lines of communication they can access and their ability to predict responses and reactions to their various transmitted signals along those communication lines. The overall political power of the individual then would be an estimate of that individual’s influence over the system of governance as a whole. This amount would change over time regardless of their official position in reference to the signals sent out by that individual or by other components of the system in relation to that individual’s signals. This angle of viewing provides a different account of politics than the textbook depiction of governmental structure given in a civics class, and emphasizes transmitted messages and their reception over institutionalized chains of command.

Personal messages motivate action more than impersonal ones, but what criteria should you use to determine if a message is personal or impersonal? If your message carries triggers for personal feelings and emotional involvement, the receivers may react to it as a personal message even if it is delivered by a broadcast medium such as network television. This explains, in part, the power of someone like Oprah. She communicates the message that she relates to people personally along with every other message she may send, and helps explain why a book she mentions or discusses on her show becomes a bestseller. The message that reaches millions of people feels like the recommendation of a close friend, even thought the vast majority of her viewers will never meet, or even see, Oprah in person.

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A bit of this, bit of that…

Posted by wesunruh on September 29, 2007

as promised in my last post, Interview with Jessica DelBalzo is up at Alterati:

==>http://www.alterati.com/blog/?p=1418

also, this came in my email, thought I’d share:
INTERESTING & HELPFUL TIPS…

Reheat Pizza
Heat up leftover pizza in a nonstick skillet on top of the stove,
set heat to med-low and heat until warm. This keeps the crust
crispy. No soggy micro pizza. I saw this on a talk show, Rachel
Ray and it really works!

Easy Deviled Eggs
Put cooked egg yolks in a zip lock baggie. Seal, mash till they
are all broken up. Add remainder of ingredients, reseal, keep
mashing it up mixing thoroughly, and cut the tip of the baggy,
squeeze mixture into egg. Just throw bag away when done, easy
clean up.

Expanding Frosting
You know how you always seem to nearly run out of frosting when
finishing up a cake? Well, when you buy a container of cake
frosting from the store, whip it with your mixer for a few minutes.
You can double it in size. You get to frost more cake/cupcakes
with the same amount. You also eat less sugar/calories per
serving.

Reheating Refrigerated Bread
To warm biscuits pancakes, or muffins that were refrigerated, place
them in a microwave with a cup of water. The increased moisture
will keep the food moist and help it reheat faster.

Newspaper those weeds away!
Start putting in your plants, work the nutrients in your soil. Wet
newspapers put layers around the plants overlapping as you go cover
with mulch and forget about weeds. Weeds will get through some
gardening plastic they will not get thro ugh wet newspapers.

Broken Glass
Use a dry cotton ball to pick up little broken glass pieces of
glass-the fibers catch ones you can’t see!

No More Mosquitoes
Place a dryer sheet in your pocket. It will keep the mosquitoes
away.

Squirrel Away!
To keep squirrels from eating your plants sprinkle your plants with
cayenne pepper. The cayenne pepper doesn’t hurt the plant and the
squirrels won’t come near it.

Flexible Vacuum
To get something out of a heat register or under the fridge add an
empty paper towel roll or empty gift wrap roll to your vacuum. It
can be bent or flattened to get in narrow openings. This also works
to clean way down deep in those dryer vents.

Reducing Static Cling
Pin a small safety pin to the seam of your slip and you will not
have a clingy skirt or dress. Same thing works with slacks that
cling when wearing panty hose. Pla c e pin in seam of slacks and –
voila – static is gone.

Measuring Cups
Before you pour sticky substances into a measuring cup, fill it
with hot water. Dump out the hot water, but don’t dry the cup.
Next, add your ingredient, such as peanut butter, and watch how
easily it comes right out.

Foggy Windshield?
Hate foggy windshields? Buy a chalkboard eraser and keep it in the
glove box of your car. When the windows fog, rub with the eraser!
Works better than a cloth!

Reopening an Envelope!
If you seal an envelope and then realize you forgot to include
something inside, just place your sealed envelope in the freezer
for an hour or two. Voila! It unseals easily.

Conditioner
Use your hair conditioner to shave your legs. It’s a lot cheaper
than shaving cream and leaves your legs really smooth. It’s also a
great way to use up t he conditioner you bought but didn’t like when
you tried it in your hair…

Goodbye Fruit Flies
To get rid of pesky fruit flies, take a small glass fill it 1/2″
with Apple Cider Vinegar and 2 drops of dishwashing liquid, mix
well. You will find those flies drawn to the cup and gone forever!

Get Rid of Ants
Put small piles of cornmeal where you see ants. They eat it, take
it “home,” can’t digest it so it kills them. It may take a week or
so, esp. if it rains, but it works &you don’t have the worry about
pets or small children being harmed.

Lastly, check out Curcio’s wrap-up for this week

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writings

Posted by wesunruh on September 24, 2007

I’ve noticed that my name has come up in a conversation one of my old roommates seems to have sparked. Yes I’m a real person, and like all people, I am made up of a confluence of selves, one of the more vocal self being the ‘angry adoptee’ - hence my occasional coverage on alterati of adoptee politics, issues, and themes. As for the ‘collective’ reference, it’s something of a result of pondering endlessly psychic and emotive states, personality in flux, ego, archetypal energy, etc. et. al, but I don’t know that I feel like defending myself.

I’m not playing an arg, but I’ve been writing a non-linear exploded novel for some time now, called Memwar - the timeline was the final post at the (now defunct) information virus this year, as I’ve finished the primary research for the book (or more accurately, books) in January. Currently I’m working on a small portion of the overall paradigm within which Memwar occurs, but Edward and I are just calling it non-fiction. Calling it secular magick wouldn’t be far off the mark, as it’s our intention to provide an academic, albeit subjective, approach to influencing and manipulating probability, and to do so according to intentional goals. That’s not the sort of magic you’re going to find in Thomas Barret’s work but it’s a kind of magic all the same, and after reading Kirk Packwood’s book I’m convinced we’re going to be covering a fairly broader range in terms of blending memetics with magic.

It’s an attempt to craft a grimoire from the post-modernist texts Edward and I have read, along with the weird underlying concept of Masterminding that runs throughout entrepreneur culture, while combining the underlying conceits of memetics and marketing. And to do so in such a way that accurately reflects our expectations and understanding of the paradigm shift engendered by the conscious social network that’s being assembled now. A selection is now publicly available here.

I’ve also finished an interview with Jessica DelBalzo, the author of Unlearning Adoption, and that interview will be going up shortly. Last week there was so much compounded crazy shit going on in the news that I felt like my head was going to explode, so this week I’m writing about a film and some books for alterati. The book Unlearning Adoption was a tremendously solid argument against adoption as it’s currently practiced in our culture. Watching the way in which DelBalzo is educating and spreading these ideas is interesting, because, as she says in the upcoming interview, this really is an outsider perspective.

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Unrelated Thoughts on The Yellow Sign

Posted by wesunruh on September 11, 2007

For the last several months I’ve been working on this article

It’s up, and covers a massive amount of research, from international adoption as a front for pedophilia and organ harvesting to coerced and forced adoption news stories current in the press. It’s also a fairly personal piece, and writing it was a fairly rocky emotional journey. Please, if you find it interesting let me know, and pass the link along to others as well. Thanks.


http://www.alterati.com/blog/?p=1332

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Adoptee SocNet

Posted by wesunruh on August 4, 2007

So adoptees are developing a social network like facebook or rude or linkedin or orkut or that one newscorp uses to track marketers. I’m not sure what the ultimate goal actually is, outside of developing walls to prevent curious from eavesdropping on conversations, however that layer of secrecy is problematic. All of us aren’t nearly as private as one of us. And often that privacy is necessary to develop a sense of self. The eclectic, the artist searching for a vision, the hermit contemplating, the solitary writer developing an abstraction free from…

shit I’m totally off topic here.

perhaps my continuous re-embrace of adoption as a central idea and my immediate meandering off topic is indicative of some deeper reactive attachment disorder and I’m fucking with it like it’s a scab. I’ve babled on about adoptee conflict and confusion often enough that returning to it seems problematic, like I’m a shell of my past output, a continuously accreting point of reference around the shadowself of persona enforced by circumstance

The adoptee needs an identity outside of the label adoptee, and most of the adjusted ignore their adoptee status in an attempt to preserve their persona.. it’s people like me, who find the persona, the mask, the act or part to be a little too stifling, and the first act of removing the mask is generally to notice it’s on. Then to show it off as an explanatory gesture when needed.. this is why, this is where, my perceptions of social roles, of group dynamics, formed from this dance of secrecy and identity as a weapon, as a distinguishing factor in the group dynamic that was obfuscated throughout, the meaning was left subsurface, and only the most attuned psychic could possibly disentangle and deconstruct without this evidence, without the sense of what should vs what is, what was.

Again I’m babbling, off so far in my head I doubt there’s another who would follow, find value. Occultic pretension, forcing hurdles against readers lest they should divine the thing I must both face and erase, then climb through the tight spiral of my scar and backward to some otherwhen and forward then from there: Would that it be different.

Even that’s untrue now, though, and with my own life I’ve found that source of love I would not give up. Now the only remaining pain, the faint dismay, the anger that resides lies more at this concern, that identity is that which can be relinguished, kept, barred, held, otherwise denied to me by a man with a badge and a gun. Adoptee Social Networks are already in existence, via elists, on angel networks… To do it instead in this way is dangerous as it make marks of ourselves and because to meet only to revisit that same primal crime of oneself seems contrary to the purpose of the networks mandate. Spread awareness, use a network already in existence. Use Myspace, or Tribe, or Yahoo, or Facebook. (Actually, use Tribe.) To remain tied to this idea that out of many networks there could be the right one is erroneous at best. Stay with the largest, grown in there, because that is the same as meeting on a stage, where in the open these grievances tied so soundly to secrecy can be perfected as an opposition to that energy, that stasis.

Then change can occur within the cultural associations.

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wait, what just happened?

Posted by wesunruh on July 25, 2007

How often does this happen?

A woman and an armed man stormed a home wearing masks and kidnapped an infant at gunpoint.

Okay, that sounds downright criminal… but look at the next sentence. This sentence still doesn’t make sense to me:

The woman had given up the baby for adoption, whisking the baby to a military base three states away, authorities alleged Sunday.

Is the adoption alleged? The whisking perhaps? It’s okay though, what ever it was that happened, the AUTHORITIES were able to right this wrong..

Investigators found the 5-month-old girl unharmed early Sunday at Fort Bragg, N.C., and planned to file state kidnapping charges against her biological mother, Jamie Kiefer said Special Agent Jason Pack, an FBI spokesman in Jackson.

“Apparently it was related to the adoption of the baby,” Pack said. “Apparently Ms. Kiefer had changed her mind about the adoption.”

Changed her mind?

well, moving on, two people kidnapped one of the kidnapper’s kids…
at least, that’s what I’m assuming, based on the story so far. But wait…

Investigators believe the three took Madison Erickson at gunpoint and tied up her adoptive mother, Jennifer Erickson, at the home in Tishomingo County, near the Tennessee line about 200 miles north of Jackson.

So now the Man and Woman from the beginning of the article are suddenly three people. What the fuck is going on here?

SOURCE

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